My husband is turning the big 5-0 in 3 weeks. When did it happen that I will be married to a 50 year old? We met when I was 19 and he was 30. Ouch. That makes me (and him) sound even older! I am working on planning his party. He has gone from not wanting to do anything for his birthday, to letting me invite “a few” people, to not having a party at all again. To say he is having a hard time with this birthday is an understatement. I can relate. I turned 40 last year. Not fun. But, as they say, “Any day above ground is a good day.” Right?